I dont want to be paranoid but I think this is so strange and doesnt make any sense. He says becuz he is in the military and he doesnt want his face online His brother and cousin are also in the military and they have lots of pice posted with their wives and kids on facebook. We have two girls and have been married since 2005. We seperated in 2008 he left me for a yr During that time he went to colombia because his mom was sick . He wouldnt give me the number to his moms house he would always call me His brother went also and gave his wife the number who lives across town she wouldnt tell me either she said she didnt have it which was a lie. Anyway I found out last night he called his ex while he was there they last dated in 2000!!! she cheated on him when he came to this country to make money to take back to her so he never went back. He found out she was married and had a daughter. Anyways he erased my pics on facebook of us together the other day He says he just doesnt want to be online and he doesnt have a facebk. But i cant help but think does this have something to do with her? If he called her after 10 yrs and she cheated he held a candle Maybe he thinks since 2008 she has gotten divorced Is this crazy that im thinking this?

im not the type of person to complain about stuff but i really really feel kinda worthless at this moment
its like i lost all the hope that i had
i had to leave HS in 10th grade cause of family problems and im in a process of getting my GED im taking the test after Christmas
i had school over the summer and my mom told me that i should quit and get a job and i said that it is not happening cause this is what i need and that i still have plenty of time to work in my life im just 18
so she started saying that when she was 18 she was out of school and she was working her butt of and i just ignored her

and i also hate when im getting compared to my cousin who is 6 months younger than i am
his mom ( my aunt) is soo proud of her son cause he works at a construction and earns money for college by himself ( he is going to some kind of a technical school ) and i hate when she is sticking her nose where it clearly does not belong like every time that she will come over – almost every week she is asking me when im going to be done with school why is it taking so long etc….. and once i just had enough and i said to her that its non of her business and why does she needs that info is she writing a book

so now when the topic of school and work comes up i just ignore it and dont wana talk about cause i do not need my own parents ot be making me depressed

its September now and i have been at home this whole month i start school again this Wed. the 30th. and it was also not good that im at home all month cause i could have been working but the question is where ? my mom and dad think that it is soo easy to find a job when my dad was a Physics and Chemistry teacher, he does not work in his field he worked in a place that makes gold and silver jewelery, table sets ( like the places, utensils etc.. ) and he is sitting on his butt at home since Jan of this year
i am doing all my best that i can at school
im taking 2 levels at once i have one class from 12pm till 3.30 pm and then the next class from 6pm till 9 pm so i usually don’t go home between those classes cause i have like an hour and a half train ride to get to school
but sometimes i feel like its kinda like my sanctuary where i can get some peace and quite

im only 13 and i love animals so much almost almost more than my own family im going to be a vet for sure my moms a vet in Australia so i don’t see her any more well once and a while i do see her I live in chase bc canada surrounded by mountains and trees and nature everywhere but there is a bear around and a cougar so its dangerous right now what are hobbies or activities to do with animals even dog walking consider my brother hes allergic to all fur so house watching isn’tt a option oh if its to do with earning money than how do i start asuccess-full Business’s a cell phone cpu and just give me advice from easy to hard idc but my cousin just got diagnosed with the swine flu. mediocre would be better than-xx naomi so ps out door even studying animals anything im the hugest animal luver in the world bigger than anyone else for a fact i am

Well, I’m 20 y/o male going to a College part-time. I live at home with my parents, my cousin and older bro, Age 19 and 24 respectively. Recently there’s been a few changes. About a few months ago my oldest bro age 28 moved out of the house because his wife got into a fight with my other bros GF.

To make a long story short. my 24y/o bros GF was known to be a neighborhood hoe.
My parents didnt seem to care because she currently lives in our house hold.

I try not to talk to my bro and I don’t even say a word to his GF.
On the other hand me and my 19y/o cousin use to get along great until he moved in. He seems to be sighing with my 24 y/o bro since he is a bit older and drinks and goes out.

Yet the guy (my bro) has never worked a day in his life and in fact never graduated HS. And my mom supports his unofficial online jersey business.

Tonight I heard them drinking in the kitchen and they (My bro his GF and cousin) though I was sleeping. I heard my bro say, "I have an opportunity to leave and move into an apartment free of charge as long as I do maintenance around the complex. and I know if I go James (ME) wont even come see me but oh well screw me screw you he said.

In fact he is right, I wouldn’t visit him or even go looking for him. He has always bee against me ever since I could recall as a child. Any woo then I heard my cousin say, " Yeah he hasn’t experienced life or had a real job and done things on his own, he acts like he knows what hes talking about.

Its true, I have never really had an official job with a bi-weekly paycheck and I am a bit shy and reserved but, If I want something I don’t hesitate to go after it. In my house I am the only one with a 40"lcd tv a PS3 matching bed, tv and dresser set. a couch and beautiful hard wood flooring my Itouch, Iphone and netbook.

I don’t mean to brag but, how did I get all of this? Not from mommy or daddy, I did side jobs and paid for the things I have; I put in the flooring I painted the room I did it all!!!

I have a car and I have given rides to the lazy bum I call a brother since he has a DUI.
At home my parents treat me like a step child and I am neglected. I would be wrong to say it doesn’t bother me but, I am glad sometimes for a split second because it has made me a tougher person.

I have always been a giver and a caring person to my family… My bro needs a ride from a bar, my cousin needs a ride, clothes, money for food, baby sitting, emotional help.

My dad needs help with this or that, my mom wants this done. I help. I’m a helper, I’ve always wanted to help people….I give money to the poor, I help people in need, I’m the nice guy that finishes last.

I pray to god to guide me yet, I feel like I receive no answer, but deep down In side I can’t give up hope… my conscious won’t let me my faith won’t let me. I am not saying I’m prefect nor the best person in the world but, I’m tried of being a victim…

I don’t drink or smoke I go to school and I want to be successful, I have learned somethings from my bros mistake but I can only thank god and know one else.

I know this is life and many young adults have emotional problems or family problems.

I just don’t know what to do any more?… Lately I’ve just been feeling tired and uninspired.

Ok I am 28, I have a 31 year old cousin who is slightly mentally slow. She is married with kids and her husband is slow too.She is always calling me crying about how bad her life is and I always help her out.When she was younger she accused her father of molesting her and nobody believed her but me. She is always bringing it up and she seems to get raped every other week. She has accused so many men of raping her it is not even funny any more. Anyways because she has young kids I am always helping her out with money and I don’t expect her to pay me back. Her immediate family wants nothing to do with her and they keep calling CPS on her accusing her husband of molesting their kids. He is not doing it and they are only accusing him of it because they want her to leave him. She has been talking to people online and making friends that she is using for money. She gives them sob stories and they send her money.She only calls me when she needs help, and she is always crying.Lately she has been blowing me off to talk to people online who she don’t even know. She is now claiming she is a lesbian. Remember she is slightly mentally retarded.She has been ignoring everyone in my family and only comes around to spread drama, and she lies a lot. I’m not sure what to do about her, should I continue to help her for the kids sake or just leave her alone? She doesn’t learn lessons and now she is talking about taking her kids and moving far away to live with some woman she has never even met in person before.I am afraid she is going to get her kids seriously hurt or even killed, but she will not listen to me or anyone else. What should I do? Her kids are only 5 and 2 yrs old.
I should add she has lost her kids four times but she and her hubby go to parenting classes, get the kids back and then they move away and won’t tell any of us where they live, I know where she is living now but I am afraid if anyone else calls CPS they will pack up the kids and run off again. Last time they did that I did not hear from her for 11 months.